Heya.. My name is Jennifer.. I am 28 as you will see on my profile and I am just a super laid back kind of chick. I know its so cliche and over done, but maybe if i just tell you what I am looking for you can tell me if that might be you? I have done a lot of crazy things. I was in and out of the "swinger" lifestyle since I turned 19. I am sooo not into the people on the swinger sites. They are either barbies who want barbies or they just want to take a ride on the chubby train to see what its like. I don't make notches on my bed post when I sleep with people and I don't want to be a notch on anyone elses bed post. I love to play WoW, I really enjoy reading a great book, or sitting for hours in a 24 hour restaurant drinking bad coffee and playing travel scrabble lol. I am a bit of a geek. I am okay with it haha.. As I said I was in the "lifestyle" for years. I have seen and done more than will even fit in this box. I am looking for a girl who would like to get to know me and my guy Adam. I don't want to just sleep with a chick. I want to hang out with her. I want to take turns playing who is in the middle with all three of us. I believe in polyamory. My idea of heaven would be living in the country, eating what we grow ourselves as much as we can, raising children in a loving inclusive community, and placing few labels on acts of love, intimacy, and affection. I don't want to entertain the idea of being a quad again. Not because it doesn't work, but for a few reasons. 1) It's hard to split yourself between 3 individuals. 2) Adam is the best man I have ever met, I have no desire to be with other men, and as for my heterosexual needs they are more than met. I would entertain the idea of having a girl who has a guy as long as he doesn't have to be involved with me. I live my life based upon the most honest prayer I have ever heard. Perls said it all when he said, "I do my thing and you do your thing. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, And you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful. If not, it can't be helped." I love that. I am honest 99% of the time. That 1% comes into play when I am sparing someones feelings. I see true beauty in people so I am not the best person to ask, "Do I look okay in this?" Because I will honestly think you do when others would see you looking a hot mess. I try to find the best in people. I take people at face value and do my level best not to judge. I had lap-band in October and have lost over 65lbs. As for Adam he is so smexy!! He has dark hair and eyes. Average build. He is super intelligent and currently attending school to complete his four year in psychology and after that he plans on attending grad school to pursue a degree in law. We love intellectually stimulating conversation. Adam is shy and I am a social butterfly. For the first time in my life I found someone who loves me and makes me feel beautiful in my own skin. I love Petrarch. I have a fetish for vampirism lol. Well I think that is more than enough about us. Haha you are probably thinking my lord will she ever shut up! I do have pictures, but they are not posted. I have done my best to be honest and upfront. I am willing to send our pictures. Because of my line of work I can't put my face on blast for all to see, but please know that I am not ashamed of who we are or our beliefs. Okay getting off the soap box.. Hahaha. I do hope to hear from you.